I have seen the following video a few times now, and each time I have found it so fitting AND it has made me actually laugh out loud (something that is not easy to do). I have found myself telling other people about it and finally decided to share it with all of you. It compares sexual consent to the act of drinking tea (one of my favorite activities!). It is a great analogy of saying no and what should happen between two partners during any sexual acts. Remember, and I always need this reminder, that you don't need a reason to say no. You do not have any sexual obligation to anyone BEFORE yourself and your own needs. Enjoy watching! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGoWLWS4-kU
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EXPRESSING HEALINGThis website and blog are a first hand account of one woman’s experience of healing her vaginismus and sexual trauma.
Along the way, I will document my physical and emotional therapy, write about different beliefs and misconceptions, and share the stories of interactions I have had and continue to have. While vaginismus is often the focus, this blog will also discuss other ideas around sexual relationships and women's bodies. This website serves as a community for those looking. Archives
April 2020
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